Saturday, 30 December 2017

How to Make 2018 Your (My) Best Year Ever #SaturdayShareLinkUp

How to Make 2018 Your (My) Best Year Ever | Realistic New Year's Resolutions and Goals

So this is it, my last blog post of 2017. It's been a crazy year all in all, and I've learnt so much in just 12 short months. 

Although I don't "do" New Year's Resolutions per se, I thought I'd list a few realistic resolutions - or should I say goals - that could make 2018 your (and my) best year ever. It's all a case of learning from your mistakes and successes, and oh BOY did I make some mistakes this year! My biggest mistake was taking on far too much work - much more than one person could possibly handle - so that's my number one priority this year.

I have to learn to say no more often, especially when it comes to job offers. Being freelance gives you that sense of worry, the constant Where is my next pay cheque going to come from feeling. It's a feeling that's hard to shake off when you've been in a situation where several people have disappeared off the face of the earth with your hard-earned money. I'm so glad I managed to turn things around in just over a year without having to give up the blog (but it came close!) - in the next year I need to organise my time much better and get my work-life balance right.

These goals can apply to anyone and everyone - I've used examples from my own life but I'm sure most people can recognise how these goals apply to them.
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Thursday, 28 December 2017

New for SS18 | 6 Winter to Spring Transitional Outfits

Winter to spring transitional outfits | Not Dressed As Lamb, over 40 style
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This is my penultimate post of 2017, and what better way to start rounding off this year than with a look towards Spring 2018?

Now don't worry, I haven't gone all boho and florals on you - far from it. All of these outfits are more than suitable for winter AND spring: just add or take away layers and swap shoes depending on what season you're dressing for. I've written this post in partnership with JD Williams as part of my Colour Council involvement which has been absolutely fantastic to work on this year. Their recent rebrand has been really inspiring as they are celebrating the 40+ woman in the MOST positive way and I'm so glad to have been part of it.

So onto the outfits - I've styled six outfits with pieces that are all "New In" (very VERY new in) as either winter or spring looks, but all work for that tricky transitional season time when you just don't know what the weather's doing. With a layering or footwear tweak here or there they'll work in cold weather or milder weather... I am SO excited about some (many!) of these pieces.
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Tuesday, 26 December 2017

Christmas Day Outfit: Red Lace Midi Dress (Perfect for Curves!) #iwillwearwhatilike

Christmas party or New Year's Eve party outfit - red lace midi dress with red pea coat and red heels | Not Dressed As Lamb, over 40 style

Happy Boxing Day - are you sick of the sight of turkey, the Quality Street tin and mince pies yet...? If not, you've obviously had a far-too restrained Christmas which just isn't allowed! ;)

I'm writing this post in advance of Christmas Day in order to save myself time in terms of a photo shoot on the big day (always hard when it gets dark so incredibly early) as well as then editing and writing the post come Boxing Day. Hopefully I will have taken a very quick shot or two on the day and included them somewhere - this outfit was shot a while ago but it's what I'm intending to wear on Christmas Day...

That's only IF I haven't eaten too many stollen bites and can actually get INTO the dress at all - right now I'm not holding out that much hope, lol!

(Regular visitors to the #iwillwearwhatilike linkup may have noticed that today is Tuesday and the link up usually goes out on a Monday - I'm sure you'll let me have this one because who reads blogs on Christmas Day, amirite?)
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Friday, 22 December 2017

Wishing You a Happy Christmas! A Thank You to All My Readers #SaturdayShareLinkUp

Merry Christmas from Not Dressed As Lamb, over 40 style blog

A little earlier today as this is my last post before Christmas - wishing you all much love and happiness for the festive break!

The image you see here is one Keith and I used on or Christmas card several years ago. Pre 2011, before I started the blog (oh, what carefree days), I had what is known as "free time" and I used to design and make ALL my own Christmas and birthday cards. Unfortunately the blog has meant that I barely have the time to write them anymore, never mind make them. But I'm not complaining - the blog has brought much greater opportunities than my original plan of having a handmade greetings cards empire ever would have...!

(By the way in case you're wondering: Yes, that IS us, both aged about 5. And no, we didn't have our photo taken together...)
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Wednesday, 20 December 2017

15 Unmissable Reads, The Best of the Blogosphere (December 2017)

15 Unmissable Reads, The Best of the Blogosphere (December 2017)

In my Best of the Blogosphere this month I have Christmas dressing galore, feeling sexy in your 40s, the illusion of perfection and all the inspirational (older) women you could hope to read about and lay your eyes on!

(In case you've not seen these posts before my Unmissable Reads are a monthly round-up of things I've seen, watched and liked in the blogosphere that I'm sure you'll love too.)

I'm posting this a week early this month due to Christmas, but I've still been able to find so many amazing reads for you. Do check out these great links - you never know who or what you might discover that makes your day/week/month!

WHAT LINKS DID YOU LIKE - AND HAVE YOU FOUND ANY FABULOUS NEW BLOGS TO FOLLOW? COMMENT BELOW, OR TWEET ME @NOTLAMB!

(Photo credits: Top left | Top middle | Top right | Middle left | Middle | Middle right | Bottom left | Bottom middle | Bottom right)

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Stephanie talks about feeling sexy in your 40s and beyond - her black lace lingerie is so classy and so sexy.

If you've never seen OK Go!'s INCREDIBLE music videos before, prepare for a complete and utter brain f**k (sorry but there's no other way to describe it)... they are the Supreme Kings of Creative Music Videos. Seriously, gird your loins.
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Monday, 18 December 2017

A Masculine Meets Feminine Blouse For Both the Office and Smart Casual Events #iwillwearwhatilike

A masculine/feminine floral blouse with contrasting cuffs and black neck tie \ with black peg leg tapered trousers pants \ Finery two tone suede and leopard ankle boots \ multi-coloured striped Mango shopper bag | Not Dressed As Lamb, over 40 fashion

In what will be the last #iwillwearwhatilike link up before Christmas, I thought I'd bring you something completely NON-Christmassy just for a change!

Advance warning for next week: As Christmas Day is a week today there won't be a link up (or post) next Monday - it'll be on Tuesday/Boxing Day instead. This is the first time EVER there won't be a #iwillwear link up on a Monday in two and a half years, which is pretty good going. Goes to show just how much you lot love seeing what women love wearing and love not giving two hoots about anyone else's opinion.

What's not to love?!
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Friday, 15 December 2017

If You Became a Celebrity Overnight, Would You Get a Stylist? #SaturdayShareLinkUp

If You Became a Celebrity Overnight, Would You Get a Stylist?

Q: Let's say you became a celebrity overnight (I'm talking a humdinger of an A-lister here) - the type that would be seen on red carpets everywhere - would you get yourself a stylist?

I can't even remember what thought train I was on this week for me to come up with this question in my head, but it's one of those random things I was pondering.

Now it's purely a question just for fun because there's very little chance that you can become an A-lister overnight. You can win the lottery, or go viral with something on YouTube, or make headlines for something you've done on some reality TV show you've made it onto, but 99 times out of 100 those are the 15 Minutes of Fame types. Most "overnight" A-list celebrities have been working for years to become an overnight sensation.

(Unless you precede your reality TV show with a sex tape and become famous for having no discernable talent whatsoever apart from "losing" your clothes a lot and documenting it every time it happens with selfies and having a mom who's happy to manage you while you do this. NO ONE can become super famous and make millions doing that, surely? I digress...)

Would YOU hire a stylist?

So just for fun, purely hypothetically speaking: Would you hire a stylist? After all, you're an A-list celeb and money is no object. I know you lot are a confident bunch (I won't say "stylish" because everyone's definition of stylish is different) so you may think No, I'm a grown up woman and am happy with what I wear, thank you very much - I don't need a stylist, famous or not!

Or you may think Well it might be fun to have someone who takes the pressure off what I wear to events and can advise me on what designers and brands that I may not be aware of.

Are you wondering which way I'd go?

BLAKE LIVELY FAMOUSLY DOESN'T HAVE A STYLIST. I SEEM TO REMEMBER READING THAT DIANE KRUGER DOESN'T EITHER. BOTH OF THESE WOMEN ARE ACHINGLY STYLISH.

Blake Lively famously doesn't have a stylist. I seem to remember reading that Diane Kruger doesn't either. Both of these women are achingly stylish, and I don't ever remember either of them being included in those heinous "What was she thinking?" articles in magazines.

[By the way I know someone will ask: The outfit I'm wearing in the photo above was my "fairy princess" look at the 2016 UK Blog Awards, one of the few big red carpet-style occasions where I styled myself. Thought I'd answer that question before I continue to ramble...]

The scrutiny of the media

From my point of view I think being under the scrutiny of the media is a TERRIFYING prospect. Plus now you have social media which is a forum for everyone in the whole world to have an opinion on what you're wearing, and not only that but they can tell you directly with tweets and =ahem= wonderful Instagram comments that talk about you in the third person.

(Why is it that so many comments on the feeds of celebrities do that? Why do people not realise that these accounts are, more often than not, a celeb's private Instagram account so they get to read all these vile comments that talk about them as if they will never read it?)

So bloggers and influencers do get it to a greater or lesser degree, depending on the size of their following, but as you know I'm a believer in #iwillwearwhatilike. Famous or not, I wouldn't wear anything that I didn't like, feel comfortable in or that just didn't look like me... I'd want to still look like ME.

What I'd do if I became an A-lister overnight...

That said, it may surprise you to know that I WOULD actually get a stylist, at least at first.

I quite like the idea of someone giving me advice not necessarily on WHAT to wear, but WHO to wear. (And I say advice... I'm thinking more "suggestions".) Although I'm no stranger to the collections of Gucci, Rodarte or Erdem, I'm certainly no expert on designers and everything that comes out every season. I'd love to have someone who can suggest designers to me that I may blissfully be unaware of, but I'd still effectively want to ultimately style myself.

So I'd have someone who was more of an advisor rather than a stylist. Help and advise me yes - actually style me... no.

However my Advisor-Stylist had better be good and had better listen to what I say or they'd be OUT faster than you can say I like my money where you can see it: hanging in my closet. (Actually that's not the fastest thing you can say, but it's my favourite SATC fashion quote so hey ho.)

I'd bet Carrie Bradshaw would do the same, no...?

IF YOU BECAME A BONA FIDE CELEBRITY OVERNIGHT, WOULD YOU GET YOURSELF A STYLIST? OR WOULD YOU STILL STYLE YOURSELF, CRITICS BE DAMNED?

TELL ME IN THE COMMENTS OR TWEET ME @NOTLAMB!


Just quickly, before the link up - a favour to ask! Could you spare about 30 seconds to vote for me in the UK Blog Awards please...?

Vote for Not Dressed As Lamb in the Fashion & Beauty category in the 2018 UK Blog Awards

I've decided to try for a fourth nomination in a row at the UK Blog Awards in 2018 - would you be good enough to vote for me please? Full details in my post about why I'm entering again here or go straight to the voting page (use every email address you have)! Thank you sooooooo much...!

So all that's left to say is - I've shared my thoughts/stories/tuppence-worth this week, now it's time to share yours... LET'S GET THIS [LINK UP] PARTY STARTED!

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Catherine

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Wednesday, 13 December 2017

21 Christmas Party Outfit Ideas (Worn By Regular Over 40 Women!)

21 Christmas Party Outfit Ideas (Worn By Regular Over 40 Women!)

In what will be my final Christmas party outfits post this year (maybe, don't hate me if it's not!), I thought I'd look to some regular over 40 women for inspiration on what to wear this festive season. 

So rather than you having to endure me wearing All The Party Outfits, you can feast your eyes on 21 party outfits as worn by my good friends from the Over40Collective instead. What's so great about featuring the members of the O40Co is that our styles are all so different, so there should be something to appeal to everyone in terms of style.

If you're not fond of all the colour and pattern that I wear so much, there are sophisticated looks based around the colour black. If you're a huge fan of sparkle and glitz, however, I've got you covered with all manner of sequins.
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Monday, 11 December 2017

Casual Festive Dressing: A Christmas Jumper Special #iwillwearwhatilike

AW17 Casual Christmas party outfit: Fluffy pink sequinned reindeer sweater, navy velvet trousers, knee high boots and navy baker boy hat | Not Dressed As Lamb, over 40 style

After one or two dressed up Christmas party outfit posts, I'm bringing you the opposite end of the festive season dressing spectrum: The laid-back, casual party outfit. Something that's practical, warm and still Yuletide-appropriate.

This is one of those outfits that's all about the Christmas jumper - and oh my god how crazy have sales of Christmas jumpers got in the last few years? What used to be something that Bridget Jones mocked poor Mark Darcy for wearing has now become THE thing to wear at Christmas. Sure, there are many tasteful or elegant ones like my fabulously fluffy sequin reindeer sweater, but truth be told, Christmas jumpers are meant to be a little tacky (and isn't that what we love about them)?

Why has this happened? Did Mr. Darcy start it off as long ago as 2001? I guess we'll never know.
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Friday, 8 December 2017

I've Entered the UK Blog Awards Again - Please Vote For Me? #SaturdayShareLinkUp

Catherine Summers, Not Dressed As Lamb | UK Blog Awards 2017 Individual Fashion & Beauty Winner

Yes, it's that time of year once again when the UK Blog Awards nomination process rolls around and I ask my lovely readers for their support.

It only feels like 5 minutes since I last asked for votes (though I'm aware it was a whole year ago...), and it's even less time that I somehow managed to win on my third time being shortlisted. It STILL hasn't sunk in even now that I won, eight months later!

So after having a huge surprise also winning Most Addictive Blog at the Thirty Plus Awards only last week, I feel like I'm on a bit of a roll this year (somehow, I don't know how)! This is happening to someone who never, ever won anything or came top in anything at school or competitions. I was just never one of those people who would win things, but I'd always have a good go trying.
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Wednesday, 6 December 2017

Discount Shopping Heaven for Beauty Junkies: Dover to Calais by Ferry

Dover to Calais ferry trip, P&O Ferries | Not Dressed As Lamb, over 40 fashion & lifestyle
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At the beginning of last week I went on a little expedition and did something I haven't done since I was 17: j'ai voyagé en France en ferry (I travelled to France by ferry)!

The last time I crossed over the English Channel was with my parents on a holiday to Brittany in 1989 (I'm the youngest of four so it was their last holiday with one of their children before we were ALL grown up enough to go on our own holidays) and it did seem like a lifetime ago. So when I was contacted by P&O Ferries and offered the chance to visit Calais on a day trip via ferry from Dover I was curious as to what it'd be like as an adult. It's amazing how you take the organising of trips for granted as a kid (or even a young adult as I was then) because I remember NOTHING about having to be at a certain place at a certain time, remembering tickets, passports or anything...!

As Keith was unavailable (i.e. couldn't get time off work at this time of year) I asked my two lovely friends Lisa and Michelle if they wanted to come and spend the day with me, checking out what Calais had to offer and to see what the trip over would be like. Unfortunately Michelle got a chest infection at the eleventh hour (poor thing!) so it was up to Lisa and I to get the Christmas spirit kicked off with a day in the French port after catching the ferry from Dover.
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Monday, 4 December 2017

What to Wear to a Christmas Party (When You Don't Wear Dresses) #iwillwearwhatilike

Floral pyjama pajama-style suit, Christmas party outfit: Trouser/pants suit with red heels, pink velvet top and gold mirror clutch | Not Dressed As Lamb, over 40 fashion

It's safe to say we're fully into Christmas party season and it's that time when those of us who haven't sorted out what we're wearing yet get into a bit of a panic. "What to wear to a Christmas party" posts are everywhere, but so many of them just include dresses.

If you're NOT the kind of gal who wear dresses much - or simply just prefers to be in trousers - then the co-ords set is your new best friend. There are lots of beautiful co-ords in the shops at the moment (I've featured my favourites further down the post) and decided to style this floral blazer and trousers suit from JD Williams to prove that party dressing doesn't HAVE to mean a dress!
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Friday, 1 December 2017

The Thirty Plus Awards: Winning 'Most Addictive Blog'! #SaturdayShareLinkUp

Not Dressed As Lamb - The Thirty Plus Awards November 2017

What a week I've had... I can't believe it's December already as I've been working non-stop and have barely had time to breathe: Now the week has finished with me unexpectedly winning an award - it's crazy (and of course wonderful)!

The Thirty Plus Awards are now in their second year (I was very honoured to be a judge last year) and several weeks ago someone very kindly nominated me for the Most Addictive Blog Award. That in itself is very humbling, but to be shortlisted by the panel of judges and THEN go on to win (when you're not expecting to win in any way shape or form) is absolutely amazing! I popped up to London yesterday to attend the awards even though I knew(!) I wouldn't win - I wanted to see friends, have a few drinks and celebrate all the amazing ladies doing amazing things in the blogosphere.

But then I won the award in my category...!!
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